The 7 Best Sex Toys for Long Distance Relationships

Though every relationship has its ups and downs and requires effort and commitment, a long distance relationship needs special effort and extra commitment from both sides to make things happen.

A long distance relationship is the one in which both partners are not present in the same location; so it has its share of ups and downs which can be overcome through trust and mutual understanding.

It may happen that in a long distance relationship you can’t meet up with your partner for months or even years in some cases.

You can talk and share photographs with each other effortlessly; thanks to social media applications which have made the world a small place.

But what to do when nature calls for sexual pleasure? Video calls are not always satisfactory as you can’t feel your partner’s moves. You can’t feel your lover!

Therefore people in a long distance relationship – since it’s easier to cheat – are more inclined towards infidelity, giving in to somebody who’s physically close to them for sexual pleasure.

But that’s a thing of the past, thanks to long distance sex toys, through which you can actually feel your partner’s moves, no matter the distance between you.

Long distance sex toys enable you to enjoy sex with your partner, even though you’re not in the same bedroom.

Below are the 7 best sex toys for long distance relationships right now, and they’ll help you keep the passion and the sensual heat of love-making alive across borders.

To ensure you don’t get counterfeit or defective products, NEVER purchase any sex toy from Amazon or Ebay. I strongly recommend that you order only from trusted and authorized dealers or official stores, like the ones mentioned in this post. Stay safe and have fun! 😀

The Kiiroo Couple Set (Pearl2 & Onyx2)

kiiroo couple set 2

Don’t want to miss your lover’s intimate touch when you’re staying separate from him/her? Go for Kiiroo’s Couple Set, including Pearl2: the vibrator for her and Onyx2: the masturbator for him.

It might be a little more expensive when compared to other long distance sex toys, but its ultimate performance is definitely worth the cost.

With its own video calling app, the Kiiroo Couple Set will definitely make your long distance sex session steamy and full of pleasure.

All you need to do is close your eyes, and feel the give and take sensation as if you are right there with your partner in the same bed.

Also, you get carry cases and even access to limited edition porn content with these. Plus, Kiiroo also supplies sets for female-same-sex couples, as well as male-same-sex couples.


  • Aesthetically designed.
  • Made up of good quality soft material.


  • Emits bright red light.
  • Sound from Onyx2 is louder when compared to other similar sex toys.

Click here to read the full Kiiroo review.

>> Check the Price of the Kiiroo Couple Set

Lovense Max and Nora

lovense teledildonics

The Lovense Max and Nora are another popular option on the list of the best sex toys for LDRs.

Max for him and Nora for her are designed to make your long distance sex life spicy and full of sensual excitement.

Nora’s vibrating (as well as rotating) arm are designed to give you the ultimate orgasm, as if your partner is right there with you in the same room. Moreover, if you like to have sex in the shower, Nora is waterproof to give you that extended pleasure.

Max, made up of premium material, feels realistically skin-like and brings you the pleasure of vibration and contraction together, as if your tool was really penetrating your partner’s love hole.


  • Quick response time.
  • Comes with a native video chat application.
  • The platform for video and audio chat is encrypted, and your chats are private.
  • You can record moves and audios for each session.
  • It is compact and can fully be controlled via your smartphone.


  • Vibrations for Nora are not that strong.
  • The chat application is not that good, but you can connect with Skype, too.
  • Max might seem too tight for some men.

Click here to read the full Lovense review.

>> Check the Price of the Lovense Couple Set

Lovense Lush

lush app

Lush from Lovense is a great tool for females to enjoy their act solo or get the toy controlled by their partner.

The best thing about Lush is that it’s an internal vibrator and you don’t have to put it through your panties.

The device is curved, which makes it hit your G-spot with powerful vibrations that’ll arouse you to the maximum possible extent. Moreover, Lush is not at all loud.

Being an internal vibrator, it’s close to silent, so nobody will be able to hear it. But don’t expect the same if you moan loudly – realistic sexual pleasure is guaranteed.


  • The vibrations are very powerful – you won’t need any other sex toy after this for achieving that ultimate orgasm.
  • The material is safe, of high quality, and is super-comfortable.


  • You might face some connectivity issues while using it paired to your phone.

Click here to read the full Lush review.

>> Check the Price of the Lovense Lush

Lovense Hush

hush app

If you and your partner enjoy some butt sessions, then Hush is the best device for both of you.

The device plugs into your butt and can be remotely controlled by your partner to get that sense of pleasurable touch in your butt.

It comes with size options of 1.5 inches or 1.75 inches. Both are available at the same price, so you need to select the one which suits you best.

Luckily, when you purchase two together, one for you and another one for your partner, you get a discount.


  • One of the best sex toys for remotely controlled butt sessions.
  • Good quality, convenient, and comfortable material.


  • You might face some connectivity issues.

Click here to read the full Hush review

>> Check the Price of the Lovense Hush

Fleshlight Launch

launch toy

UpdateSadly the Fleshlight Launch designed by Kiiroo is no longer available. No idea what happened between the two companies, but it seems that they don’t plan on selling this product in the future ever again.

The good news is that there are many strong alternatives on the market such as the Kiiroo Onyx + (our review), the Kiiroo Titan (our review) and the Lovense Max 2 (our review).

These 3 products are amazing high-tech masturbators that have mostly the same features as the Launch did.

Fleshlight Launch is compatible with Pearl2 and Ohmibod Fuse, and is an automatic masturbator for men. It comes with specially-encoded VR content and gives you up to 180 strokes per minute, giving you a remote, real-time sex session with your partner which mimics real-life intercourse.

For guys out there in a long distance relationship, the experience of vaginal intercourse which you get with Fleshlight Launch is incomparable with other sex toys.

The autopilot mode – along with premium VR porn – is even capable of mimicking the experience of a real-life blowjob, as well as oral sex.

It provides you with two modes: manual and interactive.

  • In manual mode, the Launch can perform up to 180 strokes per minute.
  • In interactive mode, the strokes are automatic and synchronized with content on FeelYourLover, FeelVideos, FeelVirtualReality, FeelWebcams, and FeelGames.


  • Fully immersive experience mimicking real-life intercourse, oral sex, or blowjob.
  • Lots of high-end immersive content available.
  • Compatible with all third-party interactive content.


  • It’s pretty expensive.

Click here to read the full Launch review.

>> Check the Price of the Fleshlight Launch


vibease app

This long distance sex toy is great for females looking to try out sex toys for the first time.

You can comfortably wear the Vibease inside your panties. It’s controlled by an application, so the distance between you and your partner really doesn’t matter. You can even use it solo.

You can also choose an erotic story from the Vibease Fantasy Store according to your preferences, and all vibrations of Vibease will get synced with the story – providing you with erotic vibrations in your vagina, just as it’s being told in the fantasy story.


  • The price falls within (almost) every budget.
  • The device fits well in panties and is completely silent, so you can even try it out in public and have loads of fun.
  • Made of good quality material.


  • Might not be comfortable while walking or moving around.
  • You might face some connectivity issues while using it.

Click here to read the full Vibease review.

We-Vibe Sync

we vibe sync

Just like the Lovense Lush, We-Vibe Sync is shaped to stimulate your G-spot perfectly.

What’s the best thing about We-Vibe? It’s designed to stimulate both your clitoris as well as G-spot together to give you that ultimate orgasm that’ll satisfy all your senses.

Most female sex toys which provide both internal, as well as external, stimulation simultaneously don’t provide a sufficient amount of pleasure to your clitoris.

However, this is not the case with We-Vibe, as the external arm is big enough to rub your clitoris in a satisfying way.

There are 10 vibration modes to choose from. You can even mix up different vibration modes to give your vagina a great sexual surprise.

You can control the device yourself or let your partner control it. If your partner is physically present, you and he and can enjoy it together during your sex session to add more spice to it. Share the vibe!


  • Can stimulate your G-spot and clitoris with equal intensity at the same time.
  • 10 vibration modes to choose from.
  • You can even prepare a custom playlist for yourself and sync the device to your music.
  • Can be used during penetrative sex with your lover to share the vibrations.


  • You might not find it comfortable during your initial tries. It will take time to get used to it.
  • The application for We-Vibe is reported to crash a lot many times inbetween, disturbing the entire experience.

>> Check the Price of the We-Vibe Sync

Best Sex Toys for Long Distance Relationships: In Conclusion

Now that we’ve reached the end of this post about the 7 best sex toys for LDRs currently on the market, I have to say it was not an easy choice to make.

The device you choose must meet your sexual needs, while also feeling comfortable and pleasurable. If clitoral stimulation is your thing, choose a toy that offers this benefit – either exclusively or as an added surprise. If butt play is your thing, the Hush should be your ideal choice.

It all comes down to what’s going to feul your fire. So, go ahead and choose whatever long distance sex toy suits you best and adds some much-needed sexual spice to your long distance relationship.

What’s my personal favorite though? Definitely the Lovense Lush 😉

William LeClair
William LeClair

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