10 Best Wifi Sex Toys for LDR Play: Let Him Control You From Afar
Who would have thought we would be living in a time when it was possible to have mind-blowing long distance sex with your partner no matter how far away they are from you?
Well, it is true! Nowadays, hundreds or thousands of miles lying between you and your partner no longer stands between you and your partner being able to turn sexual fantasies into a reality.
The best part is that most of these toys can please you and your partner simultaneously, with both of you able to easily control the level and intensity of pleasure experienced by each other even when you are both on opposite sides of the earth!
To help pick which of these awe-inspiring sex toys might be best for your long distance lovemaking, here’s our breakdown of the Best WiFi Sextoys for LDR Play, especially ones that Let Your Partner Control You From Afar!
1. Lovense Nora & Max 2
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The Nora and Max 2 are among the highest-rated teledildonic sex toys. For many excellent reasons, such as how this beautiful and exciting pair of arousing devices have been manufactured with the sole aim of making long distance sex a reality.
Breaking them down, The Nora is an amazing G spot and clitoral stimulator for people with vaginas, while the Max 2 is a rechargeable masturbator for those with a penis.
The Max 2 is a superbly designed and engineered masturbatory sleeve made to closely mimic the feel of a vagina. Though if that is not something you want, it is possible to easily replace the Max 2’s sleeve with a different one.
Housed in a discreet plastic outer shell, either of the Max 2’s sleeves are made of a porous and body-safe, skin-like silicon.
As every smart sextoy Lovense makes is compatible with their computer or smartphone Remote app, the Max 2 can be remotely controlled from anywhere. Though whoever is enjoying the toy and the person doing the controlling have to be connected to the Internet.
When it comes to pleasure, few can beat the Max 2. Largely because of its innovative approach to sleeve masturbators. Like how it does not merely vibrate but is able to constrict and apply a good amount of suction as well. If the latter gets too much, there’s a valve on the toy’s bottom to release its hold.
Via the Lovense Remote app, you or your long distance partner can increase or decrease its strokes or switch back and forth between mild, subtle, and deep contractions.
Meanwhile, the Nora is a rabbit-style vibrator built to deliver a sensual and effective G spot massage as well as being able to excite the clitoris too.
The Nora is about 4.7 inches long and made from smooth, body-safe silicone.
Its shaft is contoured with beads to improve how it feels while thrusting. Equipped with different pleasure settings, the Nora is also easily controlled with the buttons on the device or by using the Lovense Remote app.
To use a Max 2 with a Nora, or vice versa, so the actions of one are wirelessly transmitted to the other, wherever each of them are, requires the app, which additionally serves as a great messaging platform for making your playtime sessions with it more interactive and realistic.
Pros:
- Both toys are rechargeable.
- The Lovense Max 2 and Nora are made of body-safe materials.
- Both are controllable manually and or through the Lovense Remote app
- Nora and Max 2 are able to distribute multiple sensations at the same time.
Cons:
- The Max 2 toy may not accommodate a larger penis size.
Check the price of the Lovense Couple Set
2. Kiiroo Onyx+ and Pearl 2
Click here to read the full Kiiroo review
Kiiroo’s Onyx+ and Pearl 2 are next-gen Bluetooth-enabled teledildonic devices built to take long distance sex to the next level.
The Onyx+ is an automatic male masturbator with a soft and porous skin-like sleeve. Its ten specially designed motorized and contracting rings provide an amazingly arousing sensual sensation during play.
Encased in a discreet plastic body, its interior sleeve is easily washable before or after use. Its different vibration levels and intensities can be controlled manually or with the Feel Connect 3 smartphone app.
For long distance experiences, the Onyx+ was designed to connect to either a Pearl 2 or another Onyx+. We recommend using a suitable water-based lubricant when playing with an Onyx+.
While the Onyx+ is an amazing male masturbator, the Pearl 2 is a touch-sensitive G spot stimulator. Made from a silky smooth and body-safe silicone material, cleaning it before or after use is a remarkably simple process.
With seven 7 different vibration settings, including low to medium, high, slow pulse, and fast pulse, the Pearl 2 can be controlled through the Feel Connect 3 app or manually, compliments of its touch-sensitive design.
Safe and comfortable, the Pearl 2 can deliver strong yet sensual vibrations to your G-spot and a shock wave of pleasure through all of your vaginal sweet spots.
The Onyx+ and Pearl 2 work excellently together for interactive, long distance sexual playtimes. That is, as long as both toys are Bluetooth-connected to a smartphone which, in turn, has access to the Internet.
They are also compatible with FeelMe-supported adult entertainment sites, allowing each to respond to whatever’s happening in one of their videos.
The Onyx+ and Pearl 2 are equally rechargeable and require minimum effort to clean.
Pros:
- Both are made of smooth, skin-like materials.
- Onyx+ and Pearl 2 are rechargeable.
- The Onyx+ comes in a very discreet design.
- The Pearl 2 is very quiet.
Cons:
- The Onyx+ can sometimes be quite loud at high speed.
Check the price of the Kiiroo Couple Set
3. Kiiroo Keon
Number three on our list is a pleasantly unique approach to masturbation strokers. For the Kiiroo Keon, it has an external motor that any number of sleeves can be attached to.
Its inherent flexibility allows users to try out as many Feel Stroker sleeves as they want until they find one, or two, or however many of them they like.
Being an independent unit has other benefits. Not least of which is that Kiiroo is not restricted from having smaller motors in order to fit them, and their gearing and such, into a small, portable shell.
Freed from these restrictions, they can go all out in the horsepower department—to the tune of an extremely impressive 230 strokes per minute.
Because it’s from Kiiroo, the Keon has plenty of smarts to go along with its brawn. Including working extremely well with their Feel Connect 3 app as well as any website that supports it for all kinds of explicit, interactive adult videos. Both come in two dimensions or with the immersive power of virtual reality.
Not forgetting that you can link a Keon to any FeelTechnology-equipped sextoy you want. This includes Kiiroo Bluetooth-enabled products like the aforementioned Onyx+ and Pearl 2, to name just a few.
If there’s a downside to the Keon, it is its considerable weight and size., clocking in at a little over a kilogram and 220 millimeters long. For all you folks in the United States, that comes to nearly two and a quarter pounds and a little below eight and a half inches.
Though the Keon’s overall appeal lies in its power and how you can exchange sleeves whenever needed, we cannot fault Kiiroo for its weight and size. It’s just that if you are looking for a toy you can take with you without causing odd looks from TSA agents, you might want to opt for a more portable stroker.
Four hours will completely charge the Keon, which is good for anywhere from a mere 30 minutes to two hours, depending on how much you ramp up its strokes per minute.
Cleaning the Keon is extremely simple, mostly because the sleeve, not the motorized unit, is involved with directly pleasuring the user. For the former, a wipe-down with a moist but not wet cloth is all it takes.
Whatever sleeve you use should be rinsed out with lukewarm water, with a tiny dollop of antibacterial soap or sextoy cleaner, washed out again, and finally dried with a lint-free cloth.
The Keon comes with its charging cable and one Feel Stroker sleeve. Other sleeves, like an entire line of adult performers, can be purchased separately on the Kiiroo website.
Pros:
- Swap out Feel Stroker sleeves whenever wanted
- Impressive 230 strokes per minute
- Compatible with any FeelTechnology equipped sex toys
Cons:
- Quite heavy and large
- Can be distractingly loud
- Only works with Feel Stroker sleeves
4. Lovense Lush 3
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Another amazing Lovense sextoy aimed at those in long distance relationships, as well as taking it to a whole new level, is their Lush 3.
Lovense didn’t exaggerate when they dubbed the newest Lush “The most powerful Bluetooth remote control vibrator!” When it comes to packing a lot of sexual power into such a well-designed shape, few sextoys can compare.
Improving on the first and second iterations of the Lush, the third is capable of expertly stimulating a vagina owner’s G-spot.
Though the Lush 3’s antenna tail was built more to make sure the toy’s Bluetooth connection to the Lovense Remote app is easy to establish and afterward keep it from losing a signal and less as a clitoral vibrator, the Lush 3’s motor still can send enough good vibrations along it to tickle that erogenous zone.
Unlike other G-spot toys, the Lush 3’s shape is first and foremost about maintaining a satisfactory and comfortable fit. So once it is inserted, it’s very unlikely you will need to do anything but lay back and let the good times roll.
The Lush 3 is made with ultra-soft, smooth, and silky silicone material that is also completely body-safe and non-porous.
As it’s yet another fantastic innovation from the brilliant minds over at Lovense, their Lush 3 and Remote app work hand in hand—sextoy and software for endless long distance, teledildonic possibilities with other Lovense smart products.
And if using it to feel along with adult videos sounds appealing, you can do that too. Especially as Lovense has partnered with sites like SexLikeReal to support the Remote app.
The Lush 3 is wearable and, when used, remains discreetly quiet, making it a good choice for public play. Thoroughly waterproof, it is ideal for bath or shower time fun.
This also makes washing a Lush 3 not at all difficult. You probably know the drill, but since keeping your sex toys as clean as possible is always a good idea. Not doing so opens the possibilities to a wide range of infectious, and especially nasty, diseases. Begin with a splash of warm water, the application of mild antibacterial soap, a rinse with more not-too-hot water, and conclude with a good dry.
The Lush 3 will last five whole hours on an 85-minute charge. In addition to the toy itself, it comes with its USB charging cable, a storage bag, and a comprehensive user’s manual
Pros:
- Extremely powerful for its size
- Easy to set up and use for long distance play
- Thoroughly waterproof for bathtub or shower use
- Made with body-safe materials
- App-controlled and wearable
Cons:
- Not designed for simultaneous G-spot and clitoral stimulation
Check the price of the Lovense Lush
5. OhMiBod Fuse
The OhMiBod Fuse is a beautifully designed teledildonic sextoy resulting from the collaborative effort between Kiiroo and OhMiBod, two leading manufacturers of sex toys.
A touch-sensitive female vibrator designed to give powerful and intense vibrations, the Fuse is thus able to provide all sorts of long distance sex fun experiences.
Since its smart sextoy brains come from Kiiroo, any of their products or ones from companies they also partner with can be set up to interact with the Fuse.
A new and improved version of the classic rabbit vibrator, the Fuse is equally adept at stimulating both the interior of the vagina, notably the user’s G-spot and their clitoris. Either one, the other, or both at the same time.
Rather more substantial than toys like the Lush 3, the Fuse is yet another example of size mattering when it comes to pleasure devices, as it allowed Kiiroo to equip it with all the motors and gearing necessary to sexually arouse as well as please practically anyone with a vagina.
The Fuse is made from high-quality silicone, which is body-safe and non-porous. Its matt finish also feels wonderfully natural to the touch.
Coupled with its extra softness and smoothness, the Fuse feels amazing when inserted.
Designed with a bulbous head and an outward curving portion, the Fuse is 7 inches long, with an insertable length of 5 inches, and has a circumference of 1.3 inches.
The Fuse has several different pre-installed power intensity levels and vibration speeds which can be operated manually or with the Feel Connect 3 smartphone app by the user or their partner for short or long distance interactive play.
The Fuse’s vibrations range from a low delicious rumble to powerful orgasmic vibrations. It also works perfectly as an internal and external stimulator, with its extension built to comfortably contact the clitoris.
The OhMiBod Fuse is compatible with any Kiiroo device or those from companies they have partnered with.
The OhMiBod Fuse is rechargeable and splash resistant, so cleaning is remarkably simple by giving it a brief wash in lukewarm tap water, applying mild soap or sextoy cleaning solution, a rinse, and ending with a dry with lint-free towel or cloth.
After two and a half hours of charging, the Fuse will last for about an hour and a half. It ships with a storage bag, a USB charging cable, and a user’s manual.
Pros:
- G-spot and clit stimulating vibrator
- Completely rechargeable
- Made from body-safe materials
- Fully compatible with Kiiroo sex toys
Cons:
- May be louder than similar products
Check the price of the Ohmibod Fuse
6. Vibease Smart Lipstick (No longer available)
An amazing vibrator designed to provide enjoyable and discreet pleasuring, as its name implies, the Vibease Smart Lipstick looks more like a cosmetic item than a pleasure device.
But believe us when we say for something this small, the Vibease Smart Lipstick certainly packs a powerfully arousing punch. And considering its diminutive size, it’s really quite astounding how intelligent it is.
Like how it can fully connect to Vibease’s own smartphone app for adult entertainment interactivity or long distance, share-and-share like teledildonic long distance play.
One thing Vibease’s approach to smart sex toys has that its competition doesn’t is built-in audiobook integration. So after downloading their smartphone app and linking it to either their Smart Lipstick or any of their other Bluetooth-enabled products, you can set your toy up to respond at key moments while listening to one of their customized erotic audiobooks.
If fiction isn’t to your liking, you can also do the same with their sexual guides. Which is just the thing to further your sensual education as nothing beats a good hands-on approach to teaching.
The Smart Lipstick is about 10 cm long and is made with incredibly soft, smooth, and silky body-safe silicone.
The device comes with several different pleasure settings, which are controllable via the Vibease app. While the toy itself is remarkably small, it is still more than able to deliver powerful enough vibrations to meet just about everyone’s sexual needs.
Before and after using the Vibease Smart Lipstick wash it with warm and never boiling water, give it a tiny amount of sextoy cleaner or antibacterial hand soap, rinse again, and then dry.
On a full charge, Vibease Smart Lipstick is good for about two hours. It comes with a charging cable and a manual.
Pros:
- Small yet potent vibrator
- Perfect for carrying in a purse or pocket
- Comfortable to use
- Audiobook integration is fun to play around with
Cons:
- Those familiar with larger toys may find it unsatisfying
7. Vibease (No longer available)
Staying with Vibease, their titular vibrator is another of their products well worth considering for lovers who, while physically separated from one another, still want to have hours and hours of satisfying and enjoyable sex together.
This Vibease toy from Vibease, the company, is a wearable vibrator that can be either tucked into a pair of panties or used by hand. Like their Smart Lipstick, it is capable of putting a smile on just about anyone’s face, small and discreet enough to be barely noticeable.
Also, like their Smart Lipstick, the Vibease has plenty of sextech brains in its amazing compact body, so it is more than capable of performing all the long distance, fully interactive tricks its cosmetic-themed kin can do.
But while the Lipstick vibrator did its discreet pleasuring by looking like anything but a sextoy, the Vibease was made to be as unobtrusive as possible. Not only that, it was designed to be extremely comfortable and sexually satisfying while doing so.
Built of smooth, non-porous, and high-quality silicone material, the Vibease feels amazing. And if you want style as well as effectiveness, it comes in pretty pink and purple, so you can match it to your underwear if that’s your bag.
Yet another trait it has in common with the Vibease Lipstick is how it can be controlled remotely through their smartphone app or used in conjunction with their range of interactive erotic stories and sexual education audio guides.
Also helping with the Vibease’s discreteness is how quiet it is. So much so, we doubt anyone except whoever controls it and, of course, who is wearing it, will know it’s switched on and doing sexually arousing things.
Its waterproofness makes cleaning a snap as well as letting you fool around with it in the shower or bath. But keep it and other silicone sex toys away from hot tubs or the ocean, as both will likely cause them to degrade.
When you’re done or about to use the Vibease, give it a splash of warm water, some mild antibacterial soap, a good rinse, and then wind down with a good dry.
On a full charge, the Vibease will last for three hours. In addition to a charging cable, it comes with a user’s manual.
Pros:
- Powerful yet compact size
- Fully compatible with the Vibease app
- Comes in two colors!
- Easy and fun to use
Cons:
- Can be tricky to get into just the right place
- Walking tends to dislodge it
8. The Handy
Taking the eighth spot on our list of the top long distance play toys is a relative newcomer to the sextech scene.
Taking somewhat the same page as the Keon, the Norwegian-produced Handy is a powerful, independently motorized external unit that non-motorized sleeve masturbators are attachable to.
Unlike the Keon, which only works with a set number of sleeves, the Handy can handle just about any and every sleeve on the market. That is, if it isn’t too long, wide, or anything else that might prevent the Handy’s Velcro strap from wrapping around it.
But if your favorite sleeve can, then the Handy will take you where few masturbators can. With more than enough muscle and excellently designed engineering, it is a wet dream come true for those looking for a potent and versatile sextoy.
Talking long distance play, the Handy has its own proprietary smartphone app. Here, too, it differs from other interactive sex toys in that it uses both Bluetooth and WiFi to establish a connection between it and the app.
This approach means greater security, though in all fairness we have to mention it also means if you can’t get Bluetooth or WiFi to work with it, you can’t use the app.
Lastly, the Handy doesn’t have its own internal battery. The good side to this is you’ll never have to worry about it conking out because you forgot to charge it beforehand. Though it also means needing to have an electrical socket nearby. A good, long extension cord isn’t a bad idea either.
Still, you can’t beat the Handy in regards to its flexibility. Something we feel comes close to overcoming its various shortcomings is that you can fit it with nearly every sleeve, making it an ideal option for people looking to get the best of both worlds: their favorite non-powered sleeve with or without the Handy’s powerful motor to do the stroking for them.
Cleaning the Handy is amazing simply as it doesn’t come in direct contact with whoever is using it. Merely wipe it down with a damp, never soaking wet cloth, and then dry it. For the sleeve, just follow the manufacturer’s directions as they know far more about that than we do.
Pros:
- Can fit nearly any sleeve
- Extremely powerful motor
Cons:
- Connecting to both WiFi and Bluetooth can be difficult
- App has limited features when compared with other sextoy products
- No internal battery
9. Lovense Sex Machine
Where’s James Brown when you need him? Because when you bring up our number nine of the best long distance sex toys, you can’t not think of this musical legend, especially because clearly Lovense was inspired by him when they created their very own Sex Machine.
And, howdy, does this thing live up to that name!
Sure, we may have used words like “powerful” or potent when referring to more than a few of our long distance toys, but topping them all is this intimidatingly huge, mind-boggling, arousing, thrusting-engine-of-desire.
And we ain’t kidding, as it can produce an eye-popping high number of strokes per minute—as in 300 strokes a minute!
But the fun doesn’t stop there, as the Sex Machine can double-your-pleasure, double-your-fun in that it can be used by two people at once.
Plus, it employs a pair of Vac-U-Lock attachment points, so you and whoever else you want to enjoy it can switch out either of its included dildos for any others you want.
Mighty it may be, incredible it is for sure. The icing on the sexual cake is that Lovense hasn’t scrimped on their Sex Machine’s brains, as it, along with all of their other Bluetooth-equipped products, is fully compatible with the Lovense Remote app.
So, if you have an Android or Apple smartphone, PC, or Macintosh computer, you can increase or decrease the Sex Machine’s speed. Even if you are in San Francisco and your partner on the receiving end is in Hong Kong.
The Sex Machine comes with a storage bag, a power supply with all the necessary cords and cables, two differently sized dildos, assembly instructions, and a user’s manual, which also breaks down how to care and feed it, including instructions on how to take it apart to lube its various inner workings.
Pros:
- Nothing beats it for pure, sexual power
- Can use any Vac-U-Lock dildos
- Fully supports the Lovense Remote app
Cons:
- A truly massive sextoy
- Not exactly portable
- No internal battery
10. Lovense Calor
Winding up our best long distance sex toys is a final one from Lovense. While their Sex Machine would make James Brown howl in amazement, their Lush 3 is the stuff of sexual legends, The pairing of their Nora and Max 2 are ideal for straight couples, and their Calor is a remarkably innovative approach to penile pleasuring.
As opposed to the Max 2, the Calor is a pocket-sized, powered-yet-not-powered stroker.
Confused by that? Just think of it as an optionally manual masturbator where you can either lie back and let it vibrate or take a hand in it by using … well, your own hand.
This is far from a bad thing. More than anything because many people find fully-enclosed masturbators too unpleasantly disconnecting from their genitals. Not with the Calor; it’s more like a manual masturbation enhancer than a replacer.
Its fun doesn’t stop there. Far from it, as the Calor can be operated remotely, compliments of how well it works with the Lovense Remote app. Or, you can set the Calor to automatically respond depending on its used.
Yes, you heard that right. With the flick of a switch, you can have the Calor increase or decrease its vibrations in response to how fast or slow you stroke with it. Meaning you won’t have to touch its built-in controls or use the Lovense Remote app in order to use and enjoy it.
But wait, did you also know you can have it heat itself up as well? You sure can, and all it takes is using its magnetic charging cable, which is also plugged into a suitable USB power supply. And bingo, you have a nice, toasty, lifelike-feeling sextoy ready to be used.
The Calor can last from one and a half to two hours on a 90-minute charge. Fully waterproof, cleaning is merely a matter of dousing it with a small amount of warm water, applying sextoy cleaning solution or mild hand soap, a thorough rinsing, and finishing with a similarly thorough dry.
In addition to its charging cable and storage pouch, the Calor comes with a comprehensive user’s manual, which is available on the Lovense website as well.
Pros:
- Fantastic and extremely arousing masturbator
- Automatic sensors made for effortless use
- Fantastic when used in conjunction with the Lovense Remote app
- Self-heating
Cons:
- May not appeal to people used to automatic sleeve masturbators
The Verdict
Do you or your long distance partner like a more forceful sextoy? Or does one with a more extensive range of options sound exciting? How about models that work with the most number of wireless devices? Do they get you turned on?
These are other essential questions that are well worth considering when it comes time to purchase one or more of our best Bluetooth-enabled sex toys.
But whichever you end up buying, rest assured that, due to each company’s dedication to providing the most well-made, innovatively designed, and remarkably durable products they possibly can, you will be the happy owner of a toy that will more than likely keep you and your long distance partner happy for years to come!
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